This is self-destructive behavior and can’t get you where you need to go in life. You can admire people and learn from them, but avoid comparisons.
Find positive ways to grow into the person you want to be without comparing yourself to those around you.Being performance-oriented is sometimes called trying to earn admiration.
Being permanence oriented causes us to evaluate ourselves based on the respect we get from other people. We wonder if we’re performing well enough in life for people to like us.
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