But this is faulty thinking.Our sneaky, perfectionist thinking creates unattainable rules for how things should go.
And when we inevitably can’t meet our own standards for success, we judge ourselves for it.We stay stuck in a destructive thought loop where we are too hard on ourselves and feeling miserable for it, thinking that this is the way it has to be.There is another way to reach our goals, where Red Can moments take on a new meaning.Because even in the negative data, there is still good stuff.
There is value to be learned from our mistakes. All is not lost when things don’t go perfectly.You are not lost.Growth and discovery is supposed to be messy.Your failed attempts inform you on what didn’t work for you.
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