my blender, it should be coming today. If they leave it by the door, can you bring it in?”“Sure, Molly.”Now, you may think this was simply an everyday exchange about an online purchase.
But sometimes, we have an indirect way of communicating. Sometimes, we try to communicate through mental “telepathy” and then expect partners to understand our true meaning without translation.What was really going on was a) I wanted him to be as excited as I was for the morning smoothies I was going to start making, and b) I wanted to come home that day to a fridge full of smoothie ingredients from Whole Foods — almond milk, fresh fruit, almond butter, perhaps some honey.That’s what I was communicating.See, I had this romantic yet delusional fantasy that.
Read more on positivelypositive.com