How to control your destiny To control your destiny, you must first accept who you are and where you are, right now. If you fool yourself into thinking that you’re further along in your goals than you really are, you’ll leave yourself with nothing to accomplish.
At the same time, don’t convince yourself that your life is worse than it really is. Take a step back and look at your circumstances from a new perspective.
Develop your and accept reality. You can’t make a plan to control your destiny if you don’t know your starting point.Accepting reality doesn’t mean you just sit back and forget about how to control your destiny.
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